How not to get engaged? Here’s a list of the 15 worst engagement ideas!
How not to get engaged and what are the worst stories we’ve heard about? In this article you will find a list of anti-engagement ideas we have collected. Don’t do this one!
It is becoming more and more popular to build relationships without any plans to formalize the relationship. However, mass culture continues to foster romantic traditions, and thus, engagements and weddings.
Probably each of us knows someone who does not recall his or her engagement with pleasure. It turns out that this special day is often completely different from our expectations. It’s obvious that the size of the diamond or the necessity to experience this moment in the glow of the setting sun — all that doesn’t matter much when it comes to strong, deep feelings. However, it’s worth keeping in mind that there are still quite a few people who take getting engaged very seriously.
Engagement Ideas
Have you always imagined your engagement in a totally out-of-the-box, offbeat setting? Talk about it openly with your partner. Too often, we think he or she will guess what’s on our minds on their own. Moreover, more and more women decide to take matters into their own hands — they do not wait for their chosen one to propose. Such solutions we also respect.
However, if you’re dreaming of a romantic movie engagement but have some concerns about the circumstances your partner will choose, feel free to forward this article and talk openly about your preferences. After all, there are certain patterns that we suggest you avoid. You will probably agree that it is worth to make sure that each(!) of the parties remembers this moment with tears of… emotion.
How not to get engaged: with strangers
Getting engaged in the company of people whom one of the parties does not know at all (especially the surprised one, from whom the declaration is expected)? Such circumstances can make your loved one very uncomfortable. Not entirely popular family, moderately well-known friends of the partner, a crowd of complete strangers on the street? When planning such an important moment, it is worth remembering that not every person likes to be the center of attention. In addition: stress, pressure, embarrassment — you admit that this is not the best combination when we think about a dream engagement?
How not to get engaged: in an intimate moment
Do you feel extremely comfortable in each other’s company? That’s a good sign! We absolutely agree that spontaneity is very important in any relationship. But do you think the restroom is the best place to confess your readiness to spend the rest of your life together? Hmm…
How not to get engaged: at Christmas
… and after Christmas Eve friends drank coffee together and bragged about their new rings, comparing diamond sizes. Getting engaged on Christmas is really not a very original idea. If you want the person you want to spend the rest of your life with to be surprised — we advise you to avoid this date, and focus rather on Christmas gifts during the holiday season.
How not to get engaged: at home
A nice engagement touch as the perfect diversion for an evening binge on Netflix? OK — we understand that for many people, home is an asylum and a place where there is a family, wonderful atmosphere. But do we really want such an interlude while washing dishes or tidying up the apartment to be remembered by our loved one for the rest of their lives?
How not to get engaged: with a ring from a vending machine
At first it sounds pretty sweet. But if you’re planning on building a mature relationship, this is a good time to think about something that will be a little more permanent symbol of your love.
How not to get engaged: on Facebook
Believe it or not, the social media proposal trend is extremely popular these days. Just like with the vending machine ring — it’s a good idea to approach the topic of engagement maturely (though not necessarily “stiff” or cliché). So if you are serious about this relationship, do not decide on frivolous steps, such as engagement on Facebook or over the phone (yes, history knows such cases).
How not to get engaged: at lightning speed
Have you been dating for 2 months and feel like you have your other half right in front of you? It’s downright unrealistically perfect? We’re keeping our fingers crossed that the butterflies in your stomach stay with you for as long as possible! Before getting engaged, however, it’s a good idea to get to know your friends and family first, and to observe each other at various life moments. Living together is a great idea, this step will probably tell you a lot about the relationship. If you rush too much, you can not only scare your loved one, but also strongly regret your impatience in the future.
How not to get engaged: in extreme situations and dangerous places
Getting engaged over a cliff? We advise against it. Even if you both love adrenaline. Remember that such a moment is extremely stressful for many people. At best, you may drop your carefully chosen ring. At worst? Well…
How not to get engaged: in the world’s most clichéd places
Many people who think about proposing decide to go abroad. Does the idea of kneeling under the Colosseum cross your mind? Or are you tempted by the Eiffel Tower? Such romantic places can of course be OK. But make sure your loved one doesn’t take it lightly.
How not to get engaged: in a restaurant, with a loud band in the background
There is a high probability that in such a moment, the cheeks of your loved one will be flooded with crimson. Engagement is a private and intimate moment — not everyone wants to share it with all the guests of the restaurant. Well, unless the entire room is reserved just for you.
How not to get engaged: at a concert/TV/the game
History knows of cases where the engagement was accepted only because it was stupid to refuse in such circumstances. Note — the ring was returned just as quickly as it was accepted.
How not to get engaged: with a ring hidden in a cake
You probably remember all those moments in movies when a woman chokes for a few minutes until she pulls out of her mouth, hidden earlier in the cake, the engagement ring? It’s not always so funny in real life. That moment of terror can really ruin your mood.
How not to get engaged: at the gym
It’s great that you share a passion, but… we say NO to getting engaged at the gym. Hardly anyone will feel comfortable in a wet sports outfit after two hours of intense workout…
How not to get engaged: at someone’s wedding
Really? This is probably one of the most important moments for the people close to you — don’t take this day away from them.
How not to get engaged: acting
Are you pretending all day long that you don’t like anything? You’re in a beautiful place, but you deliberately spoil the other person’s few days away, only to surprise them at the end with the question “Will you marry me?” Don’t be surprised if the answer is not what you expected.
Summary
The above examples are stories from our friends, colleagues and mothers. We are aware, however, that engagement is a very individual matter and — also in one of the above versions — regardless of the circumstances, can turn out to be for someone the most beautiful moment in life. The key is to adapt your idea to your loved one, and if in doubt simply consult it with your partner or family of the other party.
If you decide on such a serious step in your relationship, it would be good to know the other person enough to know what will make him/her happy, and then surprise him/her… in a positive sense. As long as she likes surprises, of course!
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